Hi I am my 87 year old mums main carer and I am really concerned as she keeps asking me to get her cash about £200 a week which i do as it is her money
The problem is by the next week it has gone, the only other visitor mum has is her grandson and I think she is giving it to him I know she does sometimes because I have asked him. But now I am beginning to suspect its at least £600 a month.
What do I do about this its a really awkward situation and I am not sure how to handle it but I feel he shouldn't be accepting this much money from her and this money should be kept for her care. I have been looking after her for 5 years this stage though has developed over the last 12 months
Any advice please I just don't know what to do
The problem is by the next week it has gone, the only other visitor mum has is her grandson and I think she is giving it to him I know she does sometimes because I have asked him. But now I am beginning to suspect its at least £600 a month.
What do I do about this its a really awkward situation and I am not sure how to handle it but I feel he shouldn't be accepting this much money from her and this money should be kept for her care. I have been looking after her for 5 years this stage though has developed over the last 12 months
Any advice please I just don't know what to do