hi all, I care for my mum full time and would love to hear views of others on this subject. My mum has declined rapidly over 4 years but over last few months been very unsteady on her feet. I insist on her walking to and from toilet during the day despite her incontinence I feel that the movement is good. She is terrified of getting to her feet and gets really upset but I feel it helps to keep her moving. Am I being unkind?