Sorry, my stupid pad cut me off. We got a diagnosis of AZ in 2014, and steadily worse since.
I would urge you to think seriously about returning to Milan. You are more likely to find some sort of help there to get you through these initial stages, and get prepared for the future. You should also start looking at the possibility of indenità di accompagnamento (carers allowance), as this is the only financial help you will get. It is not means tested, and fairly generous. As you well know, but people in the UK don't, responsibility for sick relatives lies entirely with family, not the State, as per article 438 of the civil code. Having said that, there are some voluntary organisations that sometimes help, though as you have already pointed out, Alzheimer's is still very much a hidden disease. Have to go now because Mrs. malomm is screaming for attention. And you already know what she's calling me
Hi Maomm,
at the moment I can't force my husband to move out of his house, which he loves so much.
Here he can spend hours doing the gardening and listening to his adored classical music without disturbing the whole neighbourhood.
What would he do if we were in Milan?
He can still make decisions, despite all his problems.
Maybe when things get worse..
His situation is not so bad yet to enable us to ask for "indennità di accompagnamento" ( carers allowance)
We are in a period of transition..
I can but wait.
Where is your wife from? My father was from Palemo, Sicily