Hello All
Background
My mother is 83 and was diagnosed Alzheimer's officially last November 2022 and is also insulin dependant diabetic. My father who lives with her and main carer administers her insulin and medications.
Mother is not at the very advanced stages but she has very short memory retention but does know who we all are and holds a reasonable conversation but cannot be left alone obviously. She used to take care of all their finances and day to day tasks but now my father has had to take that main role. He is Italian and though understands and speaks English well can have difficulties understanding procedures like direct debits, using debit cards and technology in general so relies heavily on me and my sister.
Question and Advise from this Community
I am looking to apply for LPA-Health for my mother. I've can complete most of the sections and know who is to become attorney and backup and witnesses.
My problem is the Certificate Holder. My mothers GP Surgery do not have Certificate Holders and I am at a loss as to who to turn to to fulfil this role especially as my mother can probably not have a technical discussion with someone asking if she understands what the attorney role would entail and whether she fully understands the implications. This is for Health let alone Financial at this stage.
Has anyone been in the same situation? I know this should have probably been sorted out well before she has reached this stage but it is what it is.
As the sole Attorney it is my intention to fully involve my father and sister in any decision making which is how we function currently.
Any advise, guidance or comments greatly appreciated.
Krilos
Background
My mother is 83 and was diagnosed Alzheimer's officially last November 2022 and is also insulin dependant diabetic. My father who lives with her and main carer administers her insulin and medications.
Mother is not at the very advanced stages but she has very short memory retention but does know who we all are and holds a reasonable conversation but cannot be left alone obviously. She used to take care of all their finances and day to day tasks but now my father has had to take that main role. He is Italian and though understands and speaks English well can have difficulties understanding procedures like direct debits, using debit cards and technology in general so relies heavily on me and my sister.
Question and Advise from this Community
I am looking to apply for LPA-Health for my mother. I've can complete most of the sections and know who is to become attorney and backup and witnesses.
My problem is the Certificate Holder. My mothers GP Surgery do not have Certificate Holders and I am at a loss as to who to turn to to fulfil this role especially as my mother can probably not have a technical discussion with someone asking if she understands what the attorney role would entail and whether she fully understands the implications. This is for Health let alone Financial at this stage.
Has anyone been in the same situation? I know this should have probably been sorted out well before she has reached this stage but it is what it is.
As the sole Attorney it is my intention to fully involve my father and sister in any decision making which is how we function currently.
Any advise, guidance or comments greatly appreciated.
Krilos