Morning guys, another day, another drama!
Any advice for this, please?
I live in Scotland and I'm down at mums in Hereford after neighbors contacted me regarding mums behaviour / presentation / constant lock outs etc.
There are a few issues within her home which she seems unable or unwilling ( spending money ) to address: loo cistern doesn't flush anymore as so old; front porch door key lost, so she can't access front door and get her post, she goes round the house outside: garden overgrown and unkempt causing neighbours to complain about dangerous branches etc
She hasn't got an official diagnosis yet. We've applied for LPA but only just. She has money to pay for all these things but is very reluctant to fork out for these things ( lifetime habit).
Any suggestions guys? It's all looking a chaotic mess here and these practical things could be easily sorted out by me - but mum is a fireball of control and is either unable or unwilling to address these things. She has covered things up well to me, hence I was unaware of the seriousness of the problem - now I'm actually here I see this is far more than just "getting older".
As always, thank you for advice support and just being here xxxx
Any advice for this, please?
I live in Scotland and I'm down at mums in Hereford after neighbors contacted me regarding mums behaviour / presentation / constant lock outs etc.
There are a few issues within her home which she seems unable or unwilling ( spending money ) to address: loo cistern doesn't flush anymore as so old; front porch door key lost, so she can't access front door and get her post, she goes round the house outside: garden overgrown and unkempt causing neighbours to complain about dangerous branches etc
She hasn't got an official diagnosis yet. We've applied for LPA but only just. She has money to pay for all these things but is very reluctant to fork out for these things ( lifetime habit).
Any suggestions guys? It's all looking a chaotic mess here and these practical things could be easily sorted out by me - but mum is a fireball of control and is either unable or unwilling to address these things. She has covered things up well to me, hence I was unaware of the seriousness of the problem - now I'm actually here I see this is far more than just "getting older".
As always, thank you for advice support and just being here xxxx