Dear all,
I lost my mum two months ago, but she had been in a home for 8 years so really I lost her a long time ago. I saw her the day before she died, and she was on great form. I fed her lunch, she giggled away and had her chiropodist sort her toes! I left feeling upbeat, even though she didn’t know who I was, and I hadn’t been able to converse for many many years. I obviously cried when she died, but then went into organisational mode. After the funeral it hit me like a tonne of bricks and I then took a week off to grieve properly. I finally buried my mum’s ashes next to my dad’s yesterday. my problem is I can’t seem to talk to my mum like I have done my dad for years. And that is solely because for the last 8 years I haven’t been able to have a proper conversation with my Mum. Has anyone else been in this situation? Does it become easier? At the age of 44 I am feeling a little lost without either of my parents xx
I lost my mum two months ago, but she had been in a home for 8 years so really I lost her a long time ago. I saw her the day before she died, and she was on great form. I fed her lunch, she giggled away and had her chiropodist sort her toes! I left feeling upbeat, even though she didn’t know who I was, and I hadn’t been able to converse for many many years. I obviously cried when she died, but then went into organisational mode. After the funeral it hit me like a tonne of bricks and I then took a week off to grieve properly. I finally buried my mum’s ashes next to my dad’s yesterday. my problem is I can’t seem to talk to my mum like I have done my dad for years. And that is solely because for the last 8 years I haven’t been able to have a proper conversation with my Mum. Has anyone else been in this situation? Does it become easier? At the age of 44 I am feeling a little lost without either of my parents xx