I need strength not to cave into Mums pleading to go home! How on earth do you ignore the constant loop of l I need to be at home. This can’t be good for me. I cry all the time. I dont want to be here”.
its so heartbreaking and I’m close to caving in at day 6! I KNOW that this is the answer but……
Unfortunately Mum’s dementia seems to be mixed with patches of lucidity so she fully remembers home. She just wants to be back where she feels comfortable and safe. Trouble is she wasn’t safe and I firefight from afar. She is now very nearby which should be perfect.
i feel sick going in to see her. I have missed a couple of days but that doesn’t help as it fails to prove that I am around the corner and she feels she might as well be at home!
How can I get over the feeling that I have had her sectioned as this is so against her wishes?
My logical head tells me I’m doing what is best but the rest of me is eaten up with doubt.
its so heartbreaking and I’m close to caving in at day 6! I KNOW that this is the answer but……
Unfortunately Mum’s dementia seems to be mixed with patches of lucidity so she fully remembers home. She just wants to be back where she feels comfortable and safe. Trouble is she wasn’t safe and I firefight from afar. She is now very nearby which should be perfect.
i feel sick going in to see her. I have missed a couple of days but that doesn’t help as it fails to prove that I am around the corner and she feels she might as well be at home!
How can I get over the feeling that I have had her sectioned as this is so against her wishes?
My logical head tells me I’m doing what is best but the rest of me is eaten up with doubt.