At my wits end.found my husband wth a knife at his wrist last tuesday dont think he would have done anything but!! My sons an I took hi to doctor and cpn were contacted again but this time he came out to see us on the thursday. Its so hard talking to them with my husband there who was fi e that morning and accused me of trying to get him put away. Anyway they busy changing his citalopram to mirtazipine which is taken at night. It worked first two nights but last nite gave him at nine but because he was just so so agitated swallowed it instead of letting it dissolve in his mouth so it was one in the mng when he fell asleep an now hes just so drowsy. Im accused of going with men thinks there are other people in the house I only seem to have my husband for a few hours now im so so loosing touch with my friends I hate this disease!!