Granddaughter wants to come and live with my elderly mum who has dementia and stage 4 lung cancer- she only has approx 6 months to live .Grandaughter is going to start university.
I feel unsure if this is going to work.She will be with a sick woman- often feeling sick and vomiting ,she has carers in morning to do breakfast and give her tablets.She is my mother in law- my husband has power of attorney and he is applying for carers allowance as he has not worked for 10 months- He manages everything,bills, hospital appointments,Goes round 1-2 times a day-gives her dinner and evening tablets.The council are currently sorting out a walk in shower and stairlift.She is getting attendance allowance.
It might be helpful to have someone staying there as my husband wants to try and go back work.
The house in the will goes to my husband and his brother(granddaughters father).Will her staying at the house cause problems when one day mother in law has died and we want to sell the house? Can she refuse to leave?
Mother in law is exempt from council tax- will grandaughter have to pay ? I presume she will have to inform them that she lives at that address?
I have niggling doubts about her staying there and not sure why.Any advice appreciated
I feel unsure if this is going to work.She will be with a sick woman- often feeling sick and vomiting ,she has carers in morning to do breakfast and give her tablets.She is my mother in law- my husband has power of attorney and he is applying for carers allowance as he has not worked for 10 months- He manages everything,bills, hospital appointments,Goes round 1-2 times a day-gives her dinner and evening tablets.The council are currently sorting out a walk in shower and stairlift.She is getting attendance allowance.
It might be helpful to have someone staying there as my husband wants to try and go back work.
The house in the will goes to my husband and his brother(granddaughters father).Will her staying at the house cause problems when one day mother in law has died and we want to sell the house? Can she refuse to leave?
Mother in law is exempt from council tax- will grandaughter have to pay ? I presume she will have to inform them that she lives at that address?
I have niggling doubts about her staying there and not sure why.Any advice appreciated