Hi everyone, it has been a while since I posted so quick recap, I am carer for my father in law who is now in a care home after his aggression became to much.
Now it's my mother who I am trying to care for. Mum is in early stages of dementia although she is in denial but she has many health issues which means she is totally housebound. She has two carers four times a day and this is were the problem lies. The carers are all Asian and when they are there talk to each other in their own language this distresses mum she feels they are talking about her. She is very lonely as although she had seven children they are now scattered around the world. I'm 50 miles away but do see her weekly. She only sees the carers most days and she is very lonely. She really likes the carers which is saying a lot for mum she feels her family should be the ones caring for her.
How can I explain to her carers that mum feels lonelier than ever when she can't join in with the conversation.
I am arranging for a companion to visit twice a week and hoping that this help. Any advice please. Thank Vera
Now it's my mother who I am trying to care for. Mum is in early stages of dementia although she is in denial but she has many health issues which means she is totally housebound. She has two carers four times a day and this is were the problem lies. The carers are all Asian and when they are there talk to each other in their own language this distresses mum she feels they are talking about her. She is very lonely as although she had seven children they are now scattered around the world. I'm 50 miles away but do see her weekly. She only sees the carers most days and she is very lonely. She really likes the carers which is saying a lot for mum she feels her family should be the ones caring for her.
How can I explain to her carers that mum feels lonelier than ever when she can't join in with the conversation.
I am arranging for a companion to visit twice a week and hoping that this help. Any advice please. Thank Vera