mum went into full time care in Feb after a hospital stay, she in last stage dementia and has been for about 6-12 months, registered as palliative less than yr ( probably) to live.
Her long term partner jointly owns their property ( 20 yrs) and in tenants in common.
shes been refused chc but granted fnc so now will be assessed by LA,
My dilemma is, her partner does want to sell the house now shes not going back, but as we have a deputyship I've been informed even if we pay and apply for permission to sell thru the COP it could not grant permission before she dies basically.
at present she has enough to be a self funder when means tested for maybe 3-4 months til she gets to the threshold of 23k
Should I just let LA means test and go on to pay when her savings dictate and then tell them when or even if we manage to get COP permission to sell the house, or would they then try and act like it was our choice to sell ( legally he can stay there and they cant even put a charge on the property) and demand we pay back payments they have covered.
none of this might happen she may even die before we can get permission or market
Her long term partner jointly owns their property ( 20 yrs) and in tenants in common.
shes been refused chc but granted fnc so now will be assessed by LA,
My dilemma is, her partner does want to sell the house now shes not going back, but as we have a deputyship I've been informed even if we pay and apply for permission to sell thru the COP it could not grant permission before she dies basically.
at present she has enough to be a self funder when means tested for maybe 3-4 months til she gets to the threshold of 23k
Should I just let LA means test and go on to pay when her savings dictate and then tell them when or even if we manage to get COP permission to sell the house, or would they then try and act like it was our choice to sell ( legally he can stay there and they cant even put a charge on the property) and demand we pay back payments they have covered.
none of this might happen she may even die before we can get permission or market