We made the difficult decision to put my dad in a home a few weeks ago. He's settled ok but it's so hard. He's painfully thin as only eats tiny amounts of anything and he has deteriorated dramatically.
Although he has Alzheimer's, my dads seems to be physical - he can't walk or feed himself and communication is a struggle. On a good day I can
Just about understand him but on a bad day, he makes an awful continual groaning sound. I know his brain is affected but he's so sad and today managed to say it's ok for me as I wasn't ill and he's trying to get better but he can't!! Heartbreaking.
The other patients seem to be jolly and funny without many cares - all walking around but my dad seems so much more physical but with his brain still understanding how ill he is. I find it so sad and in some ways wish he didn't know so much. He's so poorly and I'm sure is close to the end as doesn't really open his eyes anymore and barely eats.
Has anyone else experienced this? Thanks - feel better by just writing it down! X
Although he has Alzheimer's, my dads seems to be physical - he can't walk or feed himself and communication is a struggle. On a good day I can
Just about understand him but on a bad day, he makes an awful continual groaning sound. I know his brain is affected but he's so sad and today managed to say it's ok for me as I wasn't ill and he's trying to get better but he can't!! Heartbreaking.
The other patients seem to be jolly and funny without many cares - all walking around but my dad seems so much more physical but with his brain still understanding how ill he is. I find it so sad and in some ways wish he didn't know so much. He's so poorly and I'm sure is close to the end as doesn't really open his eyes anymore and barely eats.
Has anyone else experienced this? Thanks - feel better by just writing it down! X