Mum was admitted into a nursing care home 2 months ago after a spell in hospital. Before that we (myself and her 4x daily carers) were already having problems getting her to eat. Now she hardly eats a thing - she refuses or won’t eat food. She is anaemic. Weight is dropping off her. She sleeps a lot. She can’t stand. He dementia has worsened although she still recognises me - but “conversation” stopped a long time ago. She’s so thin and so frail. When she was at home I could tell how she was - now she’s in the home I haven’t been able to see her face to face because of COVID. Although she seems ok in herself I think I’m being told what they think I want to hear. I think she might be going downhill rapidly. Am I over reacting???