Hi everyone. My mum has recently been diagnosed with early Alzheimers although from reading various things in books and on the internet I think it likely that she has demetia with lewy bodies. Has anyone had any experience of this? Mum seems to go up and down, she also has a tremor which I actually noticed a long time before any other symptoms kicked in, a doctor actually asked her once if she had Parkinsons disease. The tremor is worse at certain times, especially when she is trying to eat with a knife and fork. She is also very unsteady on her legs. My dad had been caring for her since this started around 18 months ago but unfortunately he had heart failure and passed away suddenly a fortnight ago, to be honest the strain he was under with mum couldn't have helped. My brother and I are now trying to decide what the options are, we are not happy to leave mum in the house without a great deal of care but as we both have young families and I live around 80 miles away and work weekends we are struggling with the limitations of what we can do. We suspected mum had some form of dementia a while ago but when she was admitted to an elderly psychiatric ward for observation she was diagnosed with anxiety and depression and put on various medications. Sometimes she seems quite lucid but other times very agitated and confused. Mostly though she just wants to lie in a chair and not do anything at all - doesn't like tv on or music. She knows that dad is dead but there has been no great outpouring of emotion although she states that she misses him and always hoped that she'd' go first'. Anyway, look forward to any advice anyone can give. Very best wishes to you all, and sorry if I've rambled on a bit! Rachel