Apologies, it's me again with yet another dilemna!
I've previously explained that mum has been deemed to be EOL and, as such, has been fast tracked to a different nursing home by the ICB. Mum was unable to remain at her previous care home because it's closing down.
Mum's only been at the new place for a few days and I'm a bit alarmed by the care she is receiving. Mum is very frail, has contracted legs, eats very little, has been bedridden for almost 3 years and becomes very distressed. In August, a best interests decision was made, with my approval, by her GP to withdraw her Oral Nutritional Supplements and increase her dose of Lorazepam to help keep her calm. The idea has been to allow the natural course of events to take place, whilst keeping mum as peaceful as possible.
The new care home is an all singing and dancing nursing & dementia place. The manager of the dementia unit has contacted me to inform me that mum's dose of Lorazepam is to be significantly decreased and that they are considering reinstating the ONS because she's not eating. On top of this, a carer phoned me today to ask if they could get the hairdresser to cut mum's hair because it had become matted at the back. This was attempted at the previous care home but, as it didn't go very well due to mum's combative behaviour, they didn't try again. The carer went on to say that they were going to give mum a bath. When I asked how they proposed to do this, she explained that mum would be hoisted out of bed and put in a bath. Mum hasn't been put in a bath for years and she finds being hoisted very distressing because of her contractures. For 3 years, she's been having bed baths.
Surely, someone at EOL should not be pulled around in this manner? Is it appropriate to give ONS at this stage? I just want mum to end her days in comfort and at peace.
Answers on a postcard, please!
Thank you
I've previously explained that mum has been deemed to be EOL and, as such, has been fast tracked to a different nursing home by the ICB. Mum was unable to remain at her previous care home because it's closing down.
Mum's only been at the new place for a few days and I'm a bit alarmed by the care she is receiving. Mum is very frail, has contracted legs, eats very little, has been bedridden for almost 3 years and becomes very distressed. In August, a best interests decision was made, with my approval, by her GP to withdraw her Oral Nutritional Supplements and increase her dose of Lorazepam to help keep her calm. The idea has been to allow the natural course of events to take place, whilst keeping mum as peaceful as possible.
The new care home is an all singing and dancing nursing & dementia place. The manager of the dementia unit has contacted me to inform me that mum's dose of Lorazepam is to be significantly decreased and that they are considering reinstating the ONS because she's not eating. On top of this, a carer phoned me today to ask if they could get the hairdresser to cut mum's hair because it had become matted at the back. This was attempted at the previous care home but, as it didn't go very well due to mum's combative behaviour, they didn't try again. The carer went on to say that they were going to give mum a bath. When I asked how they proposed to do this, she explained that mum would be hoisted out of bed and put in a bath. Mum hasn't been put in a bath for years and she finds being hoisted very distressing because of her contractures. For 3 years, she's been having bed baths.
Surely, someone at EOL should not be pulled around in this manner? Is it appropriate to give ONS at this stage? I just want mum to end her days in comfort and at peace.
Answers on a postcard, please!
Thank you