"My mums scathing response "I hated singing at school and I'm not going to start now!" Soon put them in their place!
This is priceless, I love her response!
"My mums scathing response "I hated singing at school and I'm not going to start now!" Soon put them in their place!
@AliceA has mentioned 2 courses recently -
https://www.futurelearn.com/courses/dysphagia
Also the courses from the University of Tasmania -
https://mooc.utas.edu.au/courses
Not sure if these are the ones she refers to (sorry for butting in!).
I've done 2 of the University of Tasmania ones and can certainly recommend them.
Do not know why my reply above is pale, I know I am tired at the end of a busy day BUT ................
@Lawson58 my hubby was 49 and very high functioning when he was diagnosed. But as a high level executive needing to make strategic and consequent decisions he was eventually exposed. But he was so smart and electronically savvy he did things like install bar code readers so when he must use series of large numbers , it read them, for him. Lots of tricks up his sleeve to compensate.....so his family of origin when he was first diagnosed thought I was making the whole thing up. No one questions it now. That was a long time ago and we are 16 years on this journey now. That was a difficult time for me.....but of course now...it is obvious and no one questions his disease. But the early years were hard NO ONE got what was happening. And he was so young, he did not want to attend daycare or be with older people. We were so delighted when Talking Point created separate sections for discussion...one for under 65s , because the problems can be different. But by the time that section of TP was introduced he was 63 or so. But then I had been using TP so long I did not change to the other site.And my problem is the very opposite in that because my husband is very high functioning, people don't believe that he actually has Alzheimer's. Just because he is still playing bridge, they assume that he is perfectly fine. I would love to know how many of the bridge club members actually have some form of dementia because I suspect that there are quite a few (average age is probably 70).
There have been many times when I have had to assist my husband with quite small things and there is always a puzzled look on people's faces. Naturally I don't bother to explain so no one asks me silly questions but with that also comes a general lack of assistance with these small things.
I would have to say that most of the older people I mix with have a relative with dementia or know someone who does. But I think there is a bit of morbid curiosity in the general public about dementia probably fed by a mixture of fear that they might get it or relief that they believe that they won't.
If it were that simple.............
"mum would not read it;
if she did read it she would not understand it;
if she read and understood it, she would forget about it in seconds"
Yes..... EXACTLY.
I bought my mum a dementia clock.....
She knows that the word "Friday" is (or sounds) familiar, but has NO concept of what a day is, or what a day of the week might be, or what Friday means.
Mum is 82.
She was an only child, a princess girl, a narcissist wife and a distant and neglectful mother. Always wrapped up in herself
She was an opera singer, an actress, an artist, a muse.
Simultaneously extremely vain and yet insecure.
She spent thousands and thousands and thousands of pounds over the years on herself, her health, her physical wellbeing, her pills, her seeds, her oils, her portions, her lotions, her daily exercise regime, her fad diets, her supplements, her retreats and her endless expensive therapies.
She never smoked or drank (her voice)
Oh yes, she really worked hard.... On herself.
She could hardly have looked after herself more diligently.
Yet, here we are.
@Lawson58 I thought I replied to you on this. My husband was so high functioning for many of his early years with the disease. But he could not make decisions or use handle the finances or many many things. But he was great at doing his best to function when he was around other people (hosting) so many people who just had brief encounters with him could not detect he had any problems. Actually I found that a difficult time as people acted as though I was making up the issues we were dealing with.And my problem is the very opposite in that because my husband is very high functioning, people don't believe that he actually has Alzheimer's. Just because he is still playing bridge, they assume that he is perfectly fine. I would love to know how many of the bridge club members actually have some form of dementia because I suspect that there are quite a few (average age is probably 70).
There have been many times when I have had to assist my husband with quite small things and there is always a puzzled look on people's faces. Naturally I don't bother to explain so no one asks me silly questions but with that also comes a general lack of assistance with these small things.
I would have to say that most of the older people I mix with have a relative with dementia or know someone who does. But I think there is a bit of morbid curiosity in the general public about dementia probably fed by a mixture of fear that they might get it or relief that they believe that they won't.