Mum is living alone with carers 3X a day and me visiting once a day. She has recently started phoning me and asking me to pick her up and take here "away from this house". She said "I feel as if I'm not in the right body, as if I'm someone else" She is anxious, distressed and very unsettled for a few hours, but later has forgotten about it and doesn't want to move to a home etc. It's really upsetting to see her in this state. She tested "borderline" for a urinary infection and is on anti biotics. My question is, if it's not a UTI, would anti depressants or something for anxiety help? Does anyone have experience of this? I'm phoning more often and increasing the number of hours I spend with her as well. I'm looking at care homes, and will put her name down and try respite, but don't want to actually move her until there's no alternative.