For the past 2 months my husband has been in the psychiatric ward of our local hospital, I've been told he has dementia he is 45, I want my husband to come home on his discharge from hosiptal however I have been told he must go and live in a care place, neither my husband or I want that. I want to care for him at home until becomes ill enough to warrent such a placement which he is not at the moment. I am organising day care in an early onset day centre and can set up care at home as well. I am a nurse and understand what I am taking on. I feel deverstated that the hospital see my husband as someone who should be put away. I also requested that as it is our wedding anniversery next week could I take my husband home for the day to be told - no. The thought of life without my husband is heartbreaking, and living alone is becoming traumatic. Is it wrong for us to want to spend some extra time together while we can.