This morning I took my OH for a trial visit to day care. Complete disaster. He got very angry, said it was full of old people who were all doolally. I'm so disappointed. I had started thinking about the things I could be doing in the next few weeks. So I suppose it's back to "normal" now - no interests, no conversation. He is physically strong and loves going out, especially if he manages to get his hands on things that he can later hide in a drawer or under the furniture. I just want a little bit of normality in my life.