My mum has an aneurysm and was told at the time by Papworth Hospital that this could lead to vascular dementia. This was diagnosed during Covid lockdown.
Mum also has been diagnosed with emphysema and bipolar.
Since this time her short term memory is very poor and she does some out of the ordinary things. Makes 15 cups of tea a day and pours down sink. Brushes her teeth after everything she eats which can be 10 times a day. All the mugs in the cupboard have tea bags and sugar in them. Sits and watches the same tv programme all day. Eats her breakfast, lunch and tea sometimes before 12 midday. My dad now has to cook her dinner by 10:30am. Constantly talks and argues with herself. Goes upstairs and opens and slams doors. Talks about her dying all the time. Attacks my dad violently when she gets frustrated then blames him and denies it all. She claims her food gets stuck in her throat and sticks a toothbrush down there. Constantly repeats herself and it’s the same repetitive conversation all the time. She screams the house down when she becomes frustrated.
She refuses point blank to seek any professional help and gets very angry if you suggest it. Her anxiety levels are sky level and she weighs 7 stone.
I am very upset by what’s happening and especially every time I call her she cries. Also when she attacks my dad and puts her hands round his throat and scratches his face…..
I’ve contacted her doctors and they cannot do anything without seeing her. But she refuses.
It’s got to the stage where I have been told to get social services involved.
Had anyone else experienced the same and what do I do 😢
Mum also has been diagnosed with emphysema and bipolar.
Since this time her short term memory is very poor and she does some out of the ordinary things. Makes 15 cups of tea a day and pours down sink. Brushes her teeth after everything she eats which can be 10 times a day. All the mugs in the cupboard have tea bags and sugar in them. Sits and watches the same tv programme all day. Eats her breakfast, lunch and tea sometimes before 12 midday. My dad now has to cook her dinner by 10:30am. Constantly talks and argues with herself. Goes upstairs and opens and slams doors. Talks about her dying all the time. Attacks my dad violently when she gets frustrated then blames him and denies it all. She claims her food gets stuck in her throat and sticks a toothbrush down there. Constantly repeats herself and it’s the same repetitive conversation all the time. She screams the house down when she becomes frustrated.
She refuses point blank to seek any professional help and gets very angry if you suggest it. Her anxiety levels are sky level and she weighs 7 stone.
I am very upset by what’s happening and especially every time I call her she cries. Also when she attacks my dad and puts her hands round his throat and scratches his face…..
I’ve contacted her doctors and they cannot do anything without seeing her. But she refuses.
It’s got to the stage where I have been told to get social services involved.
Had anyone else experienced the same and what do I do 😢