Hi everyone
My Mum has been in the hospital for 3 weeks now. She has had two falls in hospital plus the one before she came into Hospital. She cannot go back to Independent Living as we do not think Mum would be safe on her own. Her Dementia seems to be getting really bad. We had a meeting with a hospital Social Worker last week.
It was awful and I ended up in tears. She did not know anything about my Mum. No notes etc and when I spoke she put her hand in front of my face to stop me which I thought was rather rude. Yes I understand that she need to talk to Mum without me Talking for her but what Mum was saying was not true.
At the end of this meeting it was decided that Mum had no Mental Capacity to decide where she wants to live.
We want her to go into a Care Home and Mum agrees with anything we say. But that of course is not good enough. We decided not to bother with Power of Attorney which I now realise was a mistake. I have no ideas left. I have made so many phone calls over the last months, years in fact and I have always done what we all thought was the best thing for Mum.
I now feel Mentally Exhausted about everything. The thought of making another phone call about Mum is making me feel more stressed. I haven't got any more fight left in me. I do not know what to do anymore.
My Mum has been in the hospital for 3 weeks now. She has had two falls in hospital plus the one before she came into Hospital. She cannot go back to Independent Living as we do not think Mum would be safe on her own. Her Dementia seems to be getting really bad. We had a meeting with a hospital Social Worker last week.
It was awful and I ended up in tears. She did not know anything about my Mum. No notes etc and when I spoke she put her hand in front of my face to stop me which I thought was rather rude. Yes I understand that she need to talk to Mum without me Talking for her but what Mum was saying was not true.
At the end of this meeting it was decided that Mum had no Mental Capacity to decide where she wants to live.
We want her to go into a Care Home and Mum agrees with anything we say. But that of course is not good enough. We decided not to bother with Power of Attorney which I now realise was a mistake. I have no ideas left. I have made so many phone calls over the last months, years in fact and I have always done what we all thought was the best thing for Mum.
I now feel Mentally Exhausted about everything. The thought of making another phone call about Mum is making me feel more stressed. I haven't got any more fight left in me. I do not know what to do anymore.