My mother inlaw has suspected vascular dementia, but refuses to attend a Memory Clinic - she told the GP that she can remember everything she needs to remember! She has short term memory problems - forgets what she has eaten, where she has put clothes, obsesses about the same few topics, I am sure you can all fill in the rest, I have tried to institute an LPA, but she blanks me or yells at me when legal things are mentioned. I am at a loss as to how to ensure these matters are resolved when she will not address them. My husband died 6 years ago, so it is all up to me - I have no immediate family in a position to help, and there is no support from the GP; I only got their interest by submitting a copy of diary I am keeping. Anyadvicewill be grateful lyre dived.