I did it! I got through Christmas!
I was exhausted when it was all over though, just trying to be 'ok' for my lovely daughter who tried so hard, bless her. Mostly she kept it low key and relaxed but each day dropped an unexpected bombshell - Christmas eve ' We're going to meet D parents ( in laws) for a drink this evening' I thought ' No! can't do that!' but it was fine, we had a nice time. Christmas day ' We're going to meet some friends in the pub before lunch for an hour' - I thought 'Noooooo! I can't do that!' - we went, it was fine. Boxing day 'We're going to have supper with friends tonight, they're cooking roast beef' I thought - well, you already know what I thought! As we were walking there she let slip that there would, in fact, be 7 of us NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
They were lovely people, no one made a fuss of me although of course they were all aware of my situation, which was great and we had a really good time! Lots of lively conversation, lots of laughing and a wonderful meal. Ok, I was knackered when we got home but it's made me realise that actually I can still enjoy myself, distraction is good for me and once upon a time long ago I was very much a people person!
Now I have to get through new year's eve. At home on my own again all I want to do is hide away and wallow in misery but there's a tiny bit of me that thinks I shouldn't give in to this
I was exhausted when it was all over though, just trying to be 'ok' for my lovely daughter who tried so hard, bless her. Mostly she kept it low key and relaxed but each day dropped an unexpected bombshell - Christmas eve ' We're going to meet D parents ( in laws) for a drink this evening' I thought ' No! can't do that!' but it was fine, we had a nice time. Christmas day ' We're going to meet some friends in the pub before lunch for an hour' - I thought 'Noooooo! I can't do that!' - we went, it was fine. Boxing day 'We're going to have supper with friends tonight, they're cooking roast beef' I thought - well, you already know what I thought! As we were walking there she let slip that there would, in fact, be 7 of us NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
They were lovely people, no one made a fuss of me although of course they were all aware of my situation, which was great and we had a really good time! Lots of lively conversation, lots of laughing and a wonderful meal. Ok, I was knackered when we got home but it's made me realise that actually I can still enjoy myself, distraction is good for me and once upon a time long ago I was very much a people person!
Now I have to get through new year's eve. At home on my own again all I want to do is hide away and wallow in misery but there's a tiny bit of me that thinks I shouldn't give in to this