I today took my husband to an EMI Nursing Home as a permanent resident. We told him it was for a couple of weeks respite for me and so they could check on his medical needs. But I think he knew something was going on, he has been in respite once and was no trouble but it was in a residential home, since which he has been assessed as requiring a nursing home so his previous respite home wouldn't take him.
He was upset, said he shouldn't be there he should be in his own home and he didn't want to stay. He wouldn't let me out of his sight and in the end I had to say I was going to the office to sign a paper and I would be back in a minute and go without him seeing me.
I felt as if I was abandoning a little puppy and am so upset. Should I have tried to keep him at home longer? He is 85 and I am 84 next week. My health is not to good and I was finding it very hard to cope at times impossible. I know at times I got so annoyed at him even though I knew it was not his fault. But surely I could have managed a bit longer. It was so cruel of me I feel like going there and bringing him home.
He was upset, said he shouldn't be there he should be in his own home and he didn't want to stay. He wouldn't let me out of his sight and in the end I had to say I was going to the office to sign a paper and I would be back in a minute and go without him seeing me.
I felt as if I was abandoning a little puppy and am so upset. Should I have tried to keep him at home longer? He is 85 and I am 84 next week. My health is not to good and I was finding it very hard to cope at times impossible. I know at times I got so annoyed at him even though I knew it was not his fault. But surely I could have managed a bit longer. It was so cruel of me I feel like going there and bringing him home.