My husband aged 63 who has had early onset Alzheimer’s for 4 years now tried to punch my 16 year old son and grabbed and kicked our 14 year old daughter thankfully I was at home and when I heard the shouting and screaming ran in to the room and intervened and calmed him down and told my children to keep away from him whilst I rang the critical care team for guidance who after failing to find respite as no care home would take him with now an incident of aggressive behaviour and also he gets up out of bed constantly through the night he was eventually sectioned under the mental health act 2.
I’m devastated and want my husband back home even though I was struggling looking after him, my children, my home and working part time to make ends meet. I want to manage the situation maybe with the right medication to stop his bouts of aggression and for us all to get a good nights sleep I will be able to continue maybe a few years longer; but my family and close friends think he should remain in permanent care. I can’t come to terms that he might not be coming home and I will only get to see him on visits if he remains in care. It’s mental torture seeing him deteriorate too soon by this evil disease. Please can anyone who has been in the same situation share their experiences with me if they have managed to enjoy life once more even whilst their beloved partner is to remain in care until they die as I feel like my life is over I‘m only surviving for the sake of my children.
I’m devastated and want my husband back home even though I was struggling looking after him, my children, my home and working part time to make ends meet. I want to manage the situation maybe with the right medication to stop his bouts of aggression and for us all to get a good nights sleep I will be able to continue maybe a few years longer; but my family and close friends think he should remain in permanent care. I can’t come to terms that he might not be coming home and I will only get to see him on visits if he remains in care. It’s mental torture seeing him deteriorate too soon by this evil disease. Please can anyone who has been in the same situation share their experiences with me if they have managed to enjoy life once more even whilst their beloved partner is to remain in care until they die as I feel like my life is over I‘m only surviving for the sake of my children.