Oh my poor girl. You sound at breaking point in so many ways. My heart goes out to you
What is happening to you all, is the most horrific nightmare time. It may not feel like it, but how you are caring for your husband is the right way to care in my opinion. You are making sure he, and you, are safe so that you can both have a quality of life. Not what either of you have planned, but no one plans to have dementia in their lives and it's the dementia that has changed the way you can care for him, it is NOT you failing to care for him. Keep that in your mind when you and sadly others doubt your choices for your man.
Huge squishy hugs
May I suggest you speak to someone from Alzheimer's support or ageuk about finances if CHC reject the claim. It has been known that those from social services don't always know the full rules concerning finances and could give you incorrect information.
More hugs xx
What is happening to you all, is the most horrific nightmare time. It may not feel like it, but how you are caring for your husband is the right way to care in my opinion. You are making sure he, and you, are safe so that you can both have a quality of life. Not what either of you have planned, but no one plans to have dementia in their lives and it's the dementia that has changed the way you can care for him, it is NOT you failing to care for him. Keep that in your mind when you and sadly others doubt your choices for your man.
Huge squishy hugs
May I suggest you speak to someone from Alzheimer's support or ageuk about finances if CHC reject the claim. It has been known that those from social services don't always know the full rules concerning finances and could give you incorrect information.
More hugs xx