My partner who is 81 has Alzheimer’s along with a lot of physical health issues, heart failure, orthostatic hypotension.
he was diagnosed in 2018. He has just been in hospital for 7 weeks, they were trying to stabilise his OH. After 7 weeks they said they had done all they could do. He had three falls prior to hospital and one in hospital. He had two prior admissions in November last year and January this year. I have cared for him without any help since he was diagnosed. He gets dizzy very easily.
he seems to have deteriorated a lot in the last 6 months.
I do not have good mental health and we are currently having a reablement visit every morning as the medication I take at night means I do not function well in the morning. We had renablement after his last two hospitalisations.
my mental health has really suffered during the 7 week hospitalisation. He wouldn’t eat the hospital food so I was constantly taking food in. The doctors didn’t communicate with me very well. I was constantly battling to find out what was going on. I am very stressed and the slightest thing has me in tears.
the renablement people are already putting pressure on, he hasn’t even been out a week yet. I am frantically contacting care agencies to get something set up. He has some savings so we have to pay for care. I am astounded at the cost, £30 for 1/2 hour. Is this usual?
he has two zimmer frames and I got a stair lift installed. He is supposed to wait for the carer to have a wash and use the stairlift.
I got up for a wee at 9.30am this morning which is unusual for me, normally I am not up until around 11-12. the renablement people come in at 10.30am for an hour. He really needs them earlier but we had no choice. I found him in the shower, sat on the bath board thank god, but with the step he uses when I shower him to get in the bath in front of him in the bath on top of a bath mat.. He had also used the stairs without the stairlift. The lift was unfolded so he had gone downstairs on it and then squeezed past it to go upstairs.
I was beside myself, could not stop crying. He doesn’t always go dizzy before a fall. Now I just feel numb. he thought I would be pleased. The carer arrived and explained the risk to him. I just feel so overwhelmed.
he was diagnosed in 2018. He has just been in hospital for 7 weeks, they were trying to stabilise his OH. After 7 weeks they said they had done all they could do. He had three falls prior to hospital and one in hospital. He had two prior admissions in November last year and January this year. I have cared for him without any help since he was diagnosed. He gets dizzy very easily.
he seems to have deteriorated a lot in the last 6 months.
I do not have good mental health and we are currently having a reablement visit every morning as the medication I take at night means I do not function well in the morning. We had renablement after his last two hospitalisations.
my mental health has really suffered during the 7 week hospitalisation. He wouldn’t eat the hospital food so I was constantly taking food in. The doctors didn’t communicate with me very well. I was constantly battling to find out what was going on. I am very stressed and the slightest thing has me in tears.
the renablement people are already putting pressure on, he hasn’t even been out a week yet. I am frantically contacting care agencies to get something set up. He has some savings so we have to pay for care. I am astounded at the cost, £30 for 1/2 hour. Is this usual?
he has two zimmer frames and I got a stair lift installed. He is supposed to wait for the carer to have a wash and use the stairlift.
I got up for a wee at 9.30am this morning which is unusual for me, normally I am not up until around 11-12. the renablement people come in at 10.30am for an hour. He really needs them earlier but we had no choice. I found him in the shower, sat on the bath board thank god, but with the step he uses when I shower him to get in the bath in front of him in the bath on top of a bath mat.. He had also used the stairs without the stairlift. The lift was unfolded so he had gone downstairs on it and then squeezed past it to go upstairs.
I was beside myself, could not stop crying. He doesn’t always go dizzy before a fall. Now I just feel numb. he thought I would be pleased. The carer arrived and explained the risk to him. I just feel so overwhelmed.