I’ll try to keep this short my mum has dementia as well as lots of other health problems including double incontinence she went into hospital on 30 June this year and on 16 August was moved to a care home temporary placement. I am now battling with the hospital social worker who was instrumental in my mum’s care home placement to get her back to her flat as when she went to visit my mum after 7 weeks in the care home my mum said she wanted her independence back. The reason my mum ended up in hospital was because she wasn’t coping even with 4 visits a day. In hospital her dementia medication was stopped and she was being pad changed 2-3 times during the night to avoid the wet and soiled beds that were happening at home. Now I’m being told my mum has mental capacity to make her own decisions so I can’t envoke her LPA ( my daughter and I are her power of attorney’s). The problem is my mum no longer appreciates the risks and consequences as when I asked what she would do if something happened between calls and she couldn’t get help her reply was “ if no one comes if I snuff it then I snuff it and I’m no longer anyone’s problem”. My mum has been telling me she wants to go to sleep since the beginning of this year which has not been easy to deal with and she’s had 3 occasions when she’s been unresponsive and paramedics had to be called. The social worker now wants to speak to my mum alone and I feel that I’m being excluded and my concerns are not being heard. My mum now talks about people in the room who died 15 years or more ago as if they are there with her talking to her and taking her out. ive always been with my mum at any appointments relating to her care and health and don’t understand why I can’t be there to hear what is being Said to my mum and what her reply’s are