Husband not knowing who I am for the first time

[tonebear]

My husband of 47 years has no idea who any of us are wife daughters son grandchildren.
He regularly calls 999 when I refuse to leave his house.
We (I) now have a very supportive CPN however Northumberland Social Care visted once, believed him when he said he rang the police whilst sleepwalking ( at various times during the day) and closed the case.
I live on the edge every day waiting for the next tone he will demand I leave his house. As far as he is concerned this is his house and i have no right to be here. We moved in in 1982.
no one out ther gives a daman about the husbands and wives of vascular dementia people . It’s a battle of which one dies first

Yes, it's ooh poor thing has dementia must be terrible for them not knowing what happening. BUT no one ( or very few) give a toss or a thought for the poor bxxxxxd who has to live with it day in day out. I wonder the same thing, which one of us, me or piglet, is going to quit first.