I am so sorry. My beloved has Alzheimer's and ceased to recognize me during and after the separation imposed by Covid-19. When I tell him my name, he says that was his wife's name. So, I just keep telling him that I am the one who is his wife. I make funny faces at him to make him laugh and tell him stories of when we were younger. Just keep talking and try to keep smiling and laughing. Somewhere inside he knows.It’s a year since my husband stopped recognising me. We have been married for 52 years, I know this happens but I wondered if anyone has experienced this reverting or is this how it will stay.
Hello he will comeback then go off this is how the disease is.It’s a year since my husband stopped recognising me. We have been married for 52 years, I know this happens but I wondered if anyone has experienced this reverting or is this how it will stay.
You are doing the right thing with your dad and the compassionate communication advice ie excellent.My mum and dad are in their 80’s and my mum isn’t coping very well with stuff like dad calling her his auntie E; he phoned me and says there’s a lady been here all day do you think I should call the police. We go through -does he feel safe; she’s not doing any harm - leave it for a while and when I come over later we’ll see if she’s still there and talk about what to do. That works but not for my mum - anyone any thoughts to help mum- sometimes she corrects him, that makes him worse; sometimes she goes along with it. We’ve talked about the misidentification. And why but she’s still very upset about it