Hello. I’m new to the forum. My husband is 75 and quite a few years older than me. I noticed charges in behaviour earlier this year that at first I thought were normal for his age but now I suspect he has dementia. Several big concerns happened over summer including going on holiday and he said he knew nothing about it, thought other people were in the house and wanted to go home resulting in us having to return home the next morning. A month later he went on a day coach trip but became so confused that police and paramedics were called. His walking has deteriorated and he walks with a stoop. He thought I had been away for two years and just returned home. Last couple of nights he’s got up in night and then gone back to bed in the spare room instead of the bedroom. Sometimes he gets up in early hours, gets dressed then returns to bed fully clothed. If I say anything he blames me and denies there is a problem. Rafter several months trying I got him to GP and he has had blood test, urine test and CT scan and now been referred to Memory Clinic. He sleeps a lot during day and seems happy to sit for hours looking at newspaper or watching news on to. I work part time and try and find things to do myself to keep mentally and physically fit. Any advice on how to handle this would be appreciated. Thank you.