visiting hubby in care some times we get a good visit like today,hubby is in the later stages of dementia,he was asleep when I got there,but when he woke up the first thing he said was I know you your my mum[thats what he calls me] we had a lovely hour together,and when it was time for me to go I always take him to the lounge where other people are,I sat him down on his favorite chair,and asked him to sit and wait for me, he is so trusting thinking im coming right back [he doesnt like me to leave]it breaks my heart knowing im not telling him the truth,but he gets really upset when I do have to leave this is the only way I can do it,but its so hard and I go 3 or 4 times a week.But I know he doesnt remember but it doesnt make it any easier