Im sick of people giving me advice! I dont understand my husbands dementia? People keep giving advice on talk to him about the past, share memories, tell him stories of what has been! My husband is in a care home, which means i am now having to manage on my own money which isnt much as the care home fees take the bulk of the money. My husband is 69years old cannot walk, does not talk, sleeps 23 hours a day has to be fed by carer. I sit and watch him sleep thats all i ever do. He has a cathater, a colostomy bag is type 1 diabetic. And people keep telling me how dementia works! Nobody tells me what to expect, no medical people can tell me how long i have left with him? He has no life, i have no life if im not at the home im sitting on my own. I would love to get some response and share our memories with him, i have never been able too even when the dementia was starting to take hold im seeing the doctor next week to see why his dementia is so different to other residents?