I like probably every carer of a dementia sufferer went through mental, stressful hell looking after my wife until the point came that everyone was telling me that I couldn't go on as I was. I know thinking back to how it was that they were right. My wife has now been in care since Sep 2022. She will shortly be in her third care home, two having been unable to cope and been Sectioned as well. Maybe I'm alone in this but I view it as a living death. The woman I've spent 50 years with is essentially passed. When someone dies you over time move on but you can't with dementia. How do you go on and live what life you have left when your partner is suspended between life and death. I have formed a friendship with a woman, nothing more than friendship but am tormented by thoughts of betraying my wife. I just so want the company of a woman. Something I haven't had for years, despite my wife having been with me it wasn't companionable as she slid into dementia. Just a living hell. My head even now is such a mess, just can't think straight. I used to be organised but no more. Anyone else relate to this?