I have found a company that offers companionship and know it would do my OH some good and me to go out with someone else for an afternoon. I have a spa day booked with my daughter and will only worry about leaving him for about 5 hours. I could ask them to take him out on that day but he won’t have it as there is nothing wrong with him. I’ve left him sandwiches before but he doesn’t eat them because he forgets.