My mum has recently been diagnosed with mixed dementia and I don't know how to talk to her about it. Should I try to initiate a conversation to see if she has any fears she wants to discuss with me? I don't want to upset her by mentioning it ... so all I ask is if she feels ok with the drug shes been put on i.e. no side effects. Is it best to talk openly about her memory loss? I try not to correct her when she gets things wrong but sometimes I feel I need to (if she gets the day I am visiting wrong for example). It worries me that correcting her may upset her. In general is it best not to correct someone with dementia? Will she know shes getting things wrong? Or only if shes told?
We have so far had no support from anyone - the consultant who gave us the diagnosis was so rude - he didn't even look at my mother let alone speak to her - shes a very intelligent lady and it was humiliating that he treated her as if she was stupid. I came out with so many unanswered questions I just don't know where to turn.
We have so far had no support from anyone - the consultant who gave us the diagnosis was so rude - he didn't even look at my mother let alone speak to her - shes a very intelligent lady and it was humiliating that he treated her as if she was stupid. I came out with so many unanswered questions I just don't know where to turn.