Hello there. I'm joining TP wondering if anyone has any advice as to how to persuade my Dad to get some carer's support? He looks after my Mum, who has Alzheimer's. They recently moved to be close to me and my family, which is great, but my Dad does struggle and he won't engage with any of the possible support networks. I have tried to persuade him to go on an Alz soc carers course running locally, but he won't. "No dear" he said today - "i'm alright". I tried to explain how painful it is watching them struggle but then i feel bad for doing that - it's not me who has to look after Mum 24/7 after all...
So, if anyone has any tips on how to lure a cagey man in his late 70s into some carers support initiative i'd be v grateful! I just feel it would be better for him to be aware of support now rather than later, when there is a crisis. BTW My Mum receives no support but hates to be reminded of her Alzherimer's so we avoid anything that might remind her - it just upsets her and then she gets cross with my Dad. Poor Dad eh!
Very best, Dolly
So, if anyone has any tips on how to lure a cagey man in his late 70s into some carers support initiative i'd be v grateful! I just feel it would be better for him to be aware of support now rather than later, when there is a crisis. BTW My Mum receives no support but hates to be reminded of her Alzherimer's so we avoid anything that might remind her - it just upsets her and then she gets cross with my Dad. Poor Dad eh!
Very best, Dolly