my mum has vascular dementia has been in CH for a year and everything was fine until a fortnight ago when she refused food and water, they sent her to hospital, she has been stuck in a side ward, where nobody seem to care, they tried her on a drip but she just rips it out, they have now said there is nothing they can do, they have done lots of test, bloods, x rays and everything came back negative. Now her care home are sending somebody to assess her before they will deceide if she is allowed to go back. She is so scared and distressed because the ward she is on has different staff every day. My question is what will the assesment entail and if they dont take her back what are the options, I dont want her to die in hospital.