My poor Mum, I have been trying for ages to get the dr to put her on proper end of life so that she would have access to Morphine etc. He kept insisting she wasn't there and wanted to try other medications to calm her, which didn't work. , Wednesday she was in a real state, she was distressed and agitated and screaming out, The Care home asked for dr to call, they were reluctant and gave advice over phone, by Friday Mum was almost climbing the walls, so I called the surgery myself and insisted they come out and give her something. They finally came out and prescribed codeine agreeing she was in pain but oh no she's not end of life! Early hours Saturday morning I was called to care home as they felt death was imminent due to breathing changes. When I got there, it was horrific to watch her struggling and still screaming, nothing I did could calm her I stayed from 2am till 7 am had to go for a break, felt heartbroken and exhausted. I went back with my dad at 9 and nothing had changed, poor Dad was in bits. I spoke to the manager on duty downstairs, she said Don't worry, I've seen what's been happening , she called 111 and insisted they send a dr out to assess for end of life, she had to argue with them, eventually dr came at 9.45pm took one look at Mum and said this is end of life, prescribed morphine injections and a driver if needed. Thankfully now my Mum is more relaxed and hopefully will get the peaceful ending she deserves. I've been there all day, just home for a break, going back at 6, really hope now the end comes swiftly.