Hi all
It's been a while since I posted and Mum is now settled in the home as well as we could hope and we are as contented as we can be with her care.
My question isn't related to Mum, it's Dad.
I wondered what some of you in similar situations do about holidays/wee breaks where your partner is in care. Dad only has family and friends they both spent time with. He has no friends that arent part of a couple. He does go to concerts etc with friends etc and has no problem with this (apart from missing Mum).
However, I think he needs a wee break and I would like to get him one for Christmas (not sending him away at Christmas, I just meant a wee weekend somewhere afterwards). Him and Mum often went away weekends and he still talks about it and says he'd like to go away but can't afford it.
I'm not sure if he would hate to be on his own (I've tried to get him to come with us for a weekend, but he doesn't want to!!)
I just wondered what other people thought/if anyone had been away on their own/if anyone thought it was a horrible idea!
He does enjoy his own company and likes doing his crossword with a pint of real ale in a wee pub.
Oh I'm wittering on, I'm just not sure what to do and if he'd 'really' like to get away. If I asked him he'd say it was too expensive and he didn't want to go.
Thanks!
It's been a while since I posted and Mum is now settled in the home as well as we could hope and we are as contented as we can be with her care.
My question isn't related to Mum, it's Dad.
I wondered what some of you in similar situations do about holidays/wee breaks where your partner is in care. Dad only has family and friends they both spent time with. He has no friends that arent part of a couple. He does go to concerts etc with friends etc and has no problem with this (apart from missing Mum).
However, I think he needs a wee break and I would like to get him one for Christmas (not sending him away at Christmas, I just meant a wee weekend somewhere afterwards). Him and Mum often went away weekends and he still talks about it and says he'd like to go away but can't afford it.
I'm not sure if he would hate to be on his own (I've tried to get him to come with us for a weekend, but he doesn't want to!!)
I just wondered what other people thought/if anyone had been away on their own/if anyone thought it was a horrible idea!
He does enjoy his own company and likes doing his crossword with a pint of real ale in a wee pub.
Oh I'm wittering on, I'm just not sure what to do and if he'd 'really' like to get away. If I asked him he'd say it was too expensive and he didn't want to go.
Thanks!