Hello all I am new to the forum
my mum has mixed dementia and Alzheimer’s- she lives with my dad on their own - both are 85 - my dad is a diabetic and struggles with mobility - the last few weeks he has got very low and depressed - and I don’t know how to help him for the best - we do as much as we can to help and I am trying to get a drs appointment for him to see if they can help with medication
We are lucky that my mum has a large group of family that all pitch in - my sister is their main carer and goes round every day to wash mum and cook and clean for them both - my brother and I also go round each night to make sure they are eating I also sort health issues and appointments out and finances for them but my brother and I both need to work
I worry for my dad and sister because they are very low - my dad especially (well if truth be told we are all very low atm) I just don’t know what else we can do to help - I have suggested to my dad that we get a carer to help them but he doesn’t want that and neither does mum - mum is still there most of the time
This is such an awful disease and it puts a strain on the family to know how best to help
Does anyone have any tips more for my dad so he can cope better?
my mum has mixed dementia and Alzheimer’s- she lives with my dad on their own - both are 85 - my dad is a diabetic and struggles with mobility - the last few weeks he has got very low and depressed - and I don’t know how to help him for the best - we do as much as we can to help and I am trying to get a drs appointment for him to see if they can help with medication
We are lucky that my mum has a large group of family that all pitch in - my sister is their main carer and goes round every day to wash mum and cook and clean for them both - my brother and I also go round each night to make sure they are eating I also sort health issues and appointments out and finances for them but my brother and I both need to work
I worry for my dad and sister because they are very low - my dad especially (well if truth be told we are all very low atm) I just don’t know what else we can do to help - I have suggested to my dad that we get a carer to help them but he doesn’t want that and neither does mum - mum is still there most of the time
This is such an awful disease and it puts a strain on the family to know how best to help
Does anyone have any tips more for my dad so he can cope better?