(((Hugs)) Shedrech xhi @Ksaray and welcome
my condolences
same here, dad died in January and I miss both visiting my dad and the dad of old ... lost mum 13 years ago and miss her ... I feel fortunate that I have so many happy memories, so when I feel lost I bring a memory to mind and make myself smile; it helps me
we each grieve in our own way and at our own pace .... take your time ...
My mum once said to me, at the start of her illness, "don't let me forget who you are"; she did forget I was her daughter as was muddled about relationships but when I asked her who I was she once said "you're my best friend" - I couldn't disagree. She knew me in hospital before she passed too even though she couldn't say much, I could see it in her eyes. My dad, who has just died, never forgot who I was even though we weren't as close and he didn't think that much of me. It's strange how each sufferer loses different memories and abilities.Thanks Everyone x
Your lovely comments are much appreciated. I completely resonate with everyones thoughts & feelings. It's nice to be able to be somewhere folk understand.
I think that despite the brain fog ..in the later stages mum knew I was beside her the whole time.
When she couldn't say my name anymore she still knew who I was. Nearly always,
I could see it in her eyes ..it was the same way she'd looked into my eyes all my life.
So grateful for that.
Because from the point of diagnosis- that was always my worst fear that she'd forget who I was .. but no she never did forget.
I hate this flippin Dementia..its got to be one of the cruelest illnesses out there. I do hope for my sake , 10 / 15 years from now there will be a cure.
Sorry for going on ..& on lol
Just spamming my thoughts