Hi there people..
I have just looked in to TP and saw that it was way back in 2012 when I first posted! My dad had a scan and was diagnosed with Small Vessel Disease but then went to another hospital to go under another consultant and she told him he should never have been diagnosed and it was all rubbish!
So here we are 6 years on and still no further on...the thing my mum is really struggling with and living in hell is his anger and constantly argumentative with her. The problem stems from being diagnosed and then told by another consultant he should never have been diagnosed and dismissed he had SVD..of course my dad has always clung on to the fact he HAS NOT got it! I think that may be his main problem - if he admitted he doesn't cope well with things and is confused/frightened by whats going on we may be able to start to help him but he is adamant he is fine - if this is the case he has turned into an argumentative/confrontational/aggressive man who is making mum's life a nightmare and who in her later stages of life should not have to be subjected to this behaviour. I've suggested mum go to the doctors on her own (he won't let her go with him to any appointments) and tell the story from her side and see what help they can give her...just wondering if anyone has any suggestions/experience to share with me. Thanks x
I have just looked in to TP and saw that it was way back in 2012 when I first posted! My dad had a scan and was diagnosed with Small Vessel Disease but then went to another hospital to go under another consultant and she told him he should never have been diagnosed and it was all rubbish!
So here we are 6 years on and still no further on...the thing my mum is really struggling with and living in hell is his anger and constantly argumentative with her. The problem stems from being diagnosed and then told by another consultant he should never have been diagnosed and dismissed he had SVD..of course my dad has always clung on to the fact he HAS NOT got it! I think that may be his main problem - if he admitted he doesn't cope well with things and is confused/frightened by whats going on we may be able to start to help him but he is adamant he is fine - if this is the case he has turned into an argumentative/confrontational/aggressive man who is making mum's life a nightmare and who in her later stages of life should not have to be subjected to this behaviour. I've suggested mum go to the doctors on her own (he won't let her go with him to any appointments) and tell the story from her side and see what help they can give her...just wondering if anyone has any suggestions/experience to share with me. Thanks x