Hi all, my father in law was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia roughly a year ago. He is struggling with the diagnosis and how it is affecting his mood and patience.
My partner meets with him weekly and his father expresses that he wants to talk about the difficulty he is having coming to term with the changes in his personality and what will happen as the disease progresses. His wife is very resistant to any conversations regarding what will happen in the later stages and he is acutely aware that there is a time limit for these conversations whilst he still has the capacity. He doesn't want sympathy, but practical advice.
Does anyone have any advice on what type of talking therapy may help and how to encourage his partner to also engage?
She becomes very emotional when the subject is brought up by him and avoids any difficult conversations.
My partner meets with him weekly and his father expresses that he wants to talk about the difficulty he is having coming to term with the changes in his personality and what will happen as the disease progresses. His wife is very resistant to any conversations regarding what will happen in the later stages and he is acutely aware that there is a time limit for these conversations whilst he still has the capacity. He doesn't want sympathy, but practical advice.
Does anyone have any advice on what type of talking therapy may help and how to encourage his partner to also engage?
She becomes very emotional when the subject is brought up by him and avoids any difficult conversations.