Hi. I am Tim. I care for my 84 year old Nan who has mixed dementia, things were getting impossible with my Nan and grandad living together as she was up all night, confused who he was, walking the streets in her pjamas as she didn’t know where her ‘home’ was… so we contacted social services who arranged for her to go into emergency respite with her dog Toby.
After just an hour in the home she had a total mental breakdown and was being aggressive, trying to escape, breaking things, which is so out of character for her so she was admitted into hospital. She is still there now a week later as the drs say she has a delirium.
Everyday I visit her and she just wants to come home and be with her dog who is the love of her life but we know that just isn’t an option and it’s heartbreaking as I don’t know what to say or do… the hospital social worker has said she has to go into a community hospital for a while to properly assess her but it’s all taking so long!
I feel so guilty and get calls from Nan each evening asking where she is, why she is there and when can she come home to see Toby, she is just constantly upset all the time and things even with sedative medication to keep her calm
I just don’t know where to turn and waiting for social services to act is just getting to me because I have so much built up anxiety as to what will happen to her next
Any advice would be so helpful!
Tim
After just an hour in the home she had a total mental breakdown and was being aggressive, trying to escape, breaking things, which is so out of character for her so she was admitted into hospital. She is still there now a week later as the drs say she has a delirium.
Everyday I visit her and she just wants to come home and be with her dog who is the love of her life but we know that just isn’t an option and it’s heartbreaking as I don’t know what to say or do… the hospital social worker has said she has to go into a community hospital for a while to properly assess her but it’s all taking so long!
I feel so guilty and get calls from Nan each evening asking where she is, why she is there and when can she come home to see Toby, she is just constantly upset all the time and things even with sedative medication to keep her calm
I just don’t know where to turn and waiting for social services to act is just getting to me because I have so much built up anxiety as to what will happen to her next
Any advice would be so helpful!
Tim