Hi, Harvey is my ex husband who is caring for his 85 year old mother, Dora, who has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer. He doesnt have internet so I have offered to register. Besides Dora is a lovely lady who was very good to me and our children, so I feel very involved anyway. Harvey is very tired and inexperienced in how to care for his mother as there doesnt appear to be any professionals helping him. I believe Harvey should have a care plan, following Dora's assessment, he is checking on this, at present he is feeling very helpless. Dora has got to the stage where she cannot remember to take her tablets but doesnt want anyone going into administer them for her as she thinks she can cope. Harvey doesnt know how to encourage her that she needs help. Does anyone have any suggestions without it turning into a fight between them. Any advice or words of wisdom I know would be appreciated. It is encouraging hearing that there can be good times, at present it is just a chore. I like the idea of taking photos, I must mention that.