I am seriously worried about my Dad who is nearly 80. He is increasingly getting major mood swings. And the aggression is unbelievable. He's SO rude to people even people he has known for years. I get so shocked sometimes at what he says to people. He was never like that.
And I can't talk to him about anything to do with illnesses - even suggesting he goes to the doctor for anything and I get a mouthful of abuse.
I'm not sure its dementia or just his major depression that he gets into. I've tried suggesting he go to a therapist and you would think I was suggesting something awful.
But Mum is worried it is early signs of dementia.
I am at my wits end. Especially as she is talking about cancelling a holiday I booked for his birthday as he is getting really aggressive.
I don't know what to do. I live at home but think it maybe just severe depression and if they go on holiday it will be fine - new scene and all but after yesterday and how he was talking about one of his close friends I'm not so sure now mum's not right.
Please help - How can I tell? And How can we get him diagnosed without getting him to the doctors.
HELP PLEASE!!!!
And I can't talk to him about anything to do with illnesses - even suggesting he goes to the doctor for anything and I get a mouthful of abuse.
I'm not sure its dementia or just his major depression that he gets into. I've tried suggesting he go to a therapist and you would think I was suggesting something awful.
But Mum is worried it is early signs of dementia.
I am at my wits end. Especially as she is talking about cancelling a holiday I booked for his birthday as he is getting really aggressive.
I don't know what to do. I live at home but think it maybe just severe depression and if they go on holiday it will be fine - new scene and all but after yesterday and how he was talking about one of his close friends I'm not so sure now mum's not right.
Please help - How can I tell? And How can we get him diagnosed without getting him to the doctors.
HELP PLEASE!!!!