I just visited my mum in her care home today and was so shocked and upset to see how frail she is.She has been refusing food, drink (except small sips of bottled water) and meds over the past 3 weeks and has dropped so much weight, she is down to just 5 stone! The carers have tried everything, from cooking her favourite foods, to actually going to the supermarket and buying her specific canned drinks when she's asked for them. She often asks for stuff then either takes just one fork full and says she's had enough or most of the time just leaves it outside her room. She just spends most of the time on her bed, muttering to herself that someone is having a party in her flat and that all the food is poisoned. She refuses any form of PC and has been wearing the same top and trousers for weeks. She is adamant that the clothes in the wardrobe aren't hers. She has had a mental health assessment and they seem to think it's a bit of a stand off because she doesn't want to be in the CH burt that doesn't give us a solution to this dilemma. It is soul destroying to see my poor mum like this and we don't know where to go from here? any suggestions?