My mum has dementia, dad is her main carer but it’s down to my sister and me to help her change her clothes, do teeth etc. Mum doesn’t change her clothes or shower, teeth, wash at all anymore and we’re in a horrible phase where she’ll not let any of us help her (
she’s been in the same clothes now for 2 weeks and we’re having a daily battle to try and get them off her to put clean ones on...... she’s incredibly strong and gets very angry and upset. She doesn’t understand what we’re saying anymore and doesn’t have the vocabulary, she growls and shouts and crys. I’d really appreciate some advice, we’re at our wits end ....
she’s been in the same clothes now for 2 weeks and we’re having a daily battle to try and get them off her to put clean ones on...... she’s incredibly strong and gets very angry and upset. She doesn’t understand what we’re saying anymore and doesn’t have the vocabulary, she growls and shouts and crys. I’d really appreciate some advice, we’re at our wits end ....