Can anyone help me understand why my husband is very nice to everyone except me? I can’t say anything right so I hardly speak. He gets very angry quickly.
Yesterday I ‘suggested’ (wouldn’t tell him to do anything) he didn’t phone my daughter’s house at 9.30 on a Sunday as they relax and stay in their PJs etc. His face was like venom and he said don’t tell me what to do. Of course he did phone! He’s just horrible to me. Next thing he wonders if we should go to the garden centre, I didn’t go. Then in the evening do I want to go out to eat. I honestly don’t want to do anything when I feel like a downtrodden wife.
We’ve had a very good marriage and he used to adore me. It’s all gone now and I think I’m done.
His memory is fine, it’s just behavioural issues. He talks about me to my daughter so I know I’m like his enemy. I promise I’ve learnt to walk away etc etc, but it’s so tough at the minute.
Sorry for the ramble but I’m rather fed up.
Yesterday I ‘suggested’ (wouldn’t tell him to do anything) he didn’t phone my daughter’s house at 9.30 on a Sunday as they relax and stay in their PJs etc. His face was like venom and he said don’t tell me what to do. Of course he did phone! He’s just horrible to me. Next thing he wonders if we should go to the garden centre, I didn’t go. Then in the evening do I want to go out to eat. I honestly don’t want to do anything when I feel like a downtrodden wife.
We’ve had a very good marriage and he used to adore me. It’s all gone now and I think I’m done.
His memory is fine, it’s just behavioural issues. He talks about me to my daughter so I know I’m like his enemy. I promise I’ve learnt to walk away etc etc, but it’s so tough at the minute.
Sorry for the ramble but I’m rather fed up.